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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:17:15
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lastnight is the first time i brought up my mom seein my kids in a long ass time.. an all my husband could say well your mom can see them when she dies... i mean what kind of husband says that? >_< |
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| ZA BrickSquad |
Posted on 06/22/2012 10:20:03
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What the ****? That's messed up and very disrespectful. Unless your husband have personal problems with your mother, like disliking each other -.-
Don't let a man talk about your mother like that, even if you hate your own mom (I hope you don't), he still wouldn't have the right to say anything. |
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:22:56
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he dont have a prob with her.. an i love my mom to death .. i just live 4/5 hrs away from her an he dont like driving. shes never seen my youngest baby girl or anything seem my other two maybe 5 or 6 times.
He dont like my sisters he says there selfish cuss he supposed to get a settlement an they said we needed to get a good running car so we could make long trips an visit them. an then he got all pissed off. his mom an dad see the kids every day i dont think it far to be all one sided an the kids only get to no one side of the grand parents.
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:39:56
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Wow, that's very hurtful and insensitive of him. My advice, if you're looking for any, is appeal to his SON side, how would his mother feel if she never got to see him or her grandchildren. I think you should just keep trying to get him to understand the importance of family over anything else. Really, in life, they are all we have worth having. Until he understands how important it is for your mom to have a relationship with your kids he will probably not change.
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:41:48
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Awww dam I understand now D= Still that was mean!!! I would never say such a thing. |
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:46:10
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ive told him over an over. lol i ever said weell u parents cant see them until die then.. he just got all mad an pissed off. idk it just bunch a stupid shit. i never get to do wat i want lol i guess i never should mary someone for the wrong reasons... i only married him cuss he threaten to take me kids from me. an my kids ment an mean everything even if it means being miserable til he dies. |
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:48:40
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Aww Rawr, I'm sorry. I'm glad you're trying to make the best of a bad situation. I hope it gets better.
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:49:09
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rawr wrote:
ive told him over an over. lol i ever said weell u parents cant see them until die then.. he just got all mad an pissed off. idk it just bunch a stupid shit. i never get to do wat i want lol i guess i never should mary someone for the wrong reasons... i only married him cuss he threaten to take me kids from me. an my kids ment an mean everything even if it means being miserable til he dies.
Rawr, omg I don't know what exactly to tell you, because I do not know the whole situation...but dam....
Like Star said, I really do hope everything gets better for you and your kids.
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:51:18
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i rlly did use to love him but wen my freedom an everything went bye bye .. i have no friends i aint been out to hang out with anyone since i was 17 an im almost 21. thats rlly sad. i have no life out side of my house other then my kids you know.
sorry for venting its just getting so hard to hold everything in. |
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Posted on 06/22/2012 10:57:42
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I totally understand. I've been in a relationship like that before, granted we didn't have children, but it was a 10 year relationship. Just stay strong. If there is no way out, just try to stay positive and remember you always have us to talk to.
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Posted on 06/22/2012 13:37:15
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holy crap...that is a shitty situation...Hope it turn better ASAP rawr =/ |
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